A problem I've been running into recently is guy friends wanting to be more than friends. Specifically one guy friend. We have known each other for years. He is hilarious and loves the same type as music as me so I love hanging out with him.
The other night we went to a show together. We hung out at my house before meeting up with friends at the concert. The whole time I felt abnormally uncomfortable because we were drinking and he began to make moves. Nothing too obvious, but moving closer to me on the couch and flirting with me.
Overall, he is a great guy, however, I am not attracted to him. I kind of wish I was because he would be an awesome boyfriend. I'm just not though and I don't really know how to go about letting down such a close friend. This has happened to me a few times before and it has usually ended in a ruined friendship.
Anyway, tonight I am going out for my friends birthday. It's not just any friend though, it is a mutual friend with the ex. He will probably be there. Details later.
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In the movies we always root for the guy friend. Hoping that he will win the heart of his leading lady. Poor guys, they rarely make it out of the "Just friends" category in real life.
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